Sex, Dating, and Relationships: A Fresh Approach

Sex, Dating, and Relationships: A Fresh Approach
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Hiestand, Gerald; Thomas, Jay


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Listen to an interview with Gerald Hiestand entitled Sex, Dating, and Relationships.
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Sex, Dating, and Relationships adds a new, almost provocative voice to the conversation that, with straightforward theological insight, pleads with Christians to get serious about honoring Christ with their sexuality.

Considering the pervasive immorality and high divorce rate of our contemporary Christian culture, we evidently need a biblically based, theologically compelling, practical understanding of Sex, Dating, and Relationships. Pastors Gerald Hiestand and Jay Thomas counteract this problem with their paradigm-shifting view of purity and relationships—a view that challenges even the basic assumptions of evangelical subculture.

Unlike most books on dating, this one cuts straight to the heart of dating relationships, asserting with confidence that the line must be drawn at "no sexual activity" whatever. Few have dared to define and apply the Bible's understanding of purity in premarital relationships to this degree, but Heistand and Thomas have done it. Furthermore, both authors are vocational pastors who communicate regularly with the target audience and have a proven ability to express biblical truth in a winsome and compelling manner.

About the Authors

Gerald Hiestand is Senior Associate Pastor of Calvary Memorial Church, Illinois, as well as Executive Director of the Society for the Advancement of Ecclesial Theology. He is the author of a number of scholarly papers.

Jay Thomas (MDiv, Gordon Conwell Theological Seminary) is Senior Pastor of Chapel Hill Bible Church in Chapel Hill, NC. He was previously College Pastor at College Church in Wheaton, IL.

Book Details

160 Pages
Publisher: Crossway/Good News Publishers
Publication Date: February 2012
ISBN 10: 1433527111
ISBN 13: 9781433527111

"Finally. Clear, biblical answers and wisdom...Hiestand and Thomas’ conclusions on the nature of sexuality, lust, dating, and purity are profound, compelling, and paradigm-smashing. Dare I say it, “They are RIGHT!” The ideas in this book need the widest possible circulation in the Church – especially among parents and pastors."
- Jim Weidenaar, Westminster Bookstore Staff, 2012

“This is a straightforward, yet provocative little book. You’ll find a lot of practical, sane, biblical wisdom that will explode a number of our cultural assumptions about dating. If you are single or care about someone who is, you really should read this book. The result may just be a simpler, more God-honoring approach to dating than you thought possible.”
- Kevin DeYoung, Senior Pastor, University Reformed Church, East Lansing, MI

“What a gift this book is to single men and women. Here, in brief space, is clear and closely reasoned advice that is über-biblical and Christ-centered. It flows with life-giving grace. Sex, Dating, and Relationships will be a landmark read for many in this generation.”
- R. Kent Hughes, Author, Disciplines of a Godly Young Man; Senior Pastor Emeritus, College Church, Wheaton, IL

“Simplicity is the strength of this fresh approach to sex, dating, and relationships. If at first you chafe at the idea of ‘dating friendships,’ consider whether any alternative can bring greater glory to God, account for the biblical evidence, and guard against unnecessary heartache.”
- Collin Hansen, Editorial Director, The Gospel Coalition; author, Young, Restless, and Reformed

“In a world of cyber relationships—fueled by Facebook, texts, and tweets—the issues surrounding sex, dating, and relationships have become increasingly complex and challenging for teens, their friends, and their parents. This cutting-edge treatment of the rapidly changing scene is a must read for parents, students, counselors, and pastors. A big thanks to Gerald and Jay for helping us think sanely through this head-scratching cultural shift from a realistic and theologically astute perspective.”
- Joseph M. Stowell, President, Cornerstone University

“Jay and Gerald have written a provocative book on one of the most pressing issues of our generation—sexual purity. As the authors show, few things necessitate getting to the core of the gospel like our soul’s craving for sexual fulfillment. We cannot think too carefully about what our heavenly Father has said. Even where I reach different conclusions from the authors, I am grateful for another investigation of the biblical data.”
- J. D. Greear, Lead Pastor, The Summit Church, Durham, NC

“Hiestand and Thomas don’t kiss dating goodbye; what fun would that be? Instead, dating is revealed for what it is, which might disturb you. The greatest strength of this book is the contribution the authors make toward thinking biblically about something not in the Bible, which isn’t so easy to do. So it is possible that some might agree with their premises and the trajectory of their arguments, yet differ on some of the specific conclusions. But all will be challenged and blessed by their wise contributions to this vitally important issue.”
- Richard W. Hove, Campus Crusade for Christ, Duke University

“How refreshing! Gerald and Jay have written a biblically based, gospel-oriented book on sex, dating, and relationships—full of genuine, down-to-earth, practical instruction. This is exactly what Christians need to counteract the worldly attitudes and actions so prevalent in our churches today. It is imperative to think through these issues, and this is the best book I have read for doing so. Dating relationships are so fraught with danger that no Christian should embark on that journey without a guide. I strongly recommend this book as just such a guide.”
- Jim Samra, Senior Pastor, Calvary Church, Grand Rapids, MI

“Christ-centered reflection on sex, dating, and relationships has been a long time coming; thankfully, it has finally arrived. This volume is a must-read for anyone doing ministry among humans.”
- Chris Castaldo, Director, Ministry of Gospel Renewal, Billy Graham Center

“Gerald and Jay provide solid wisdom for emerging adults and parents on an issue of extreme importance in our day. Young adults who wish to follow Jesus wholeheartedly are faced daily with an onslaught of sexual temptation. What’s more, they are largely ill-equipped to negotiate the sex-saturated culture in which they live. I believe that the teaching in this book, if lived out, will lead to a godly marriage of passion and purity.”
- Joel Willitts, Associate Professor of Biblical and Theological Studies, North Park University; College Pastor, Christ Community Church, St. Charles, IL