She's Got the Wrong Guy: Why Smart Women Settle

“This now, is the book Ill be recommending for single women who long for marriage. With tough but loving truth, Deepak disciples single women with pastoral care and brotherly protection in one of the best books Ive read regarding dating and singleness. Every single man who desires to marry should read it too, as its a roadmap for transformation into being a godly boyfriend and a Christ-like husband, or not.”

“There are very few books out there that deserve the must-read status, and this is one of them. I want all of the single ladies in our church and our daughters to read this book. Deepaks wise counsel is both urgent and timely. Applying the principles in this book will certainly spare a whole lot of people unnecessary pain and lead readers to a greater understanding of what it means to make Jesus the center of everything.”

“This book is important for women who are dating, but it also for their good friends who want to help, for men who dont want to be the wrong guy, and for anyone who loves someone who will be dating. Your pastor will be Deepak. He will speak to you like a father as you carefully consider one of lifes most consequential decisions.”

“Tired of waiting for the right man to come along? Weary of delaying wedded bliss? Are you tempted to redefine love so you can accommodate a lesser man in an okay marriage? Dont you dare. The cosmic stakes are too high and your life is too precious to settle for a second-best marriage. If youre looking for the emotional strength to wait well on Gods man, my friend Deepak Reju has written the perfect guide in this remarkable book you hold in your hands. I give it a big double-thumbs up!”

“This is a book that should have been written years ago. Gratefully, its here in time for our four daughters, and you can be sure we will be reading this biblically wise and practical treatment with all of them. Single men, too, might read it to discover the kind of man parents like us pray for daily.”

“Deepak Reju has given us single women an engaging book full of relatable dating dilemmas and biblical wisdom for help. He identifies common warning signs that are not typically discussed in a Christian book on dating. Whether youre having doubts about a relationship or need encouragement to prioritize Gods standards, read this book and share it with others.”

“Page by page of Shes Got the Wrong Guy is full of convincing and convicting truth. Shared through stories, women will find the content exceptionally relatable. The book precisely conveys what a mature view of relationship should look like and why it desperately matters. It is a book for singles and a book for those in relationship who want solid biblical guidance.”

“Deepak Rejus Shes Got the Wrong Guy peeks into many kinds of marriage misery. He describes how and why many Christian women choose poorly. Wise single women will read and be grateful for his astute observations and ability to pinpoint why these wrong guys might seem rightand why smart Christian women should avoid them.”

“Shes Got the Wrong Guy is a wonderful book. I thoroughly enjoyed reading it. It is very God-honoring, practical, engaging, and convicting. I already know several women who could benefit from this book including my five granddaughters. As a biblical counselor to women, this book is an exceptional resource. I highly recommend it.”

“As I read Shes Got the Wrong Guy, I kept thinking, This book is like a modern-day book of Proverbs written by a father to his young adult daughter. Pastor Deepak Reju writes with compassionate gospel-centered, proverbial wisdom relevantly applying Gods truth to the vital topic of singleness, dating, and marriage. This is the book that Ill be recommending to single women.”

“With the wisdom that comes from hours and hours of counseling brokenhearted women, the biblical insight that springs from years in the Scriptures, and the compassion that flows out of the heart of a follower of Jesus, Deepak has written a sensitive and important book for women who want to be married and might be tempted to settle for someone . . . anyone . . . who will take away the loneliness. Sisters, if youre considering who you should date (and ultimately marry), let me encourage you to read this book first and to take Deepaks counsel to heart. He loves the Lord and his words are true.”

“Dr. Reju has turned the topic of dating on its head with this insightful and thoughtful look at who not to marry. As a seasoned counselor and brother in Christ, he walks single Christian women through a methodical process of considering the dangers of settling. Using compelling case studies, Deepak carefully leads them to consider many biblical factors that are sometimes swept away as insignificant while encouraging smart women to be patient in waiting for Gods best.”

“Deepak has written a much-needed word to single women which is full of biblical truth and wisdom. His wealth of experience has given him the ability to write with understanding and conviction as he encourages young women to pursue Christ, patiently trust Gods plan, and depend on his grace while they wait on him. I highly recommend this book full of prudent warnings, poignant examples and godly counsel to single women.”

“As a biblical counselor and a woman who didnt marry until age forty-two, Ive seen many of my beloved single friends make choices regarding dating and marriage they later came to regret. Its my hope that the heartache experienced by many single women will be averted because of the wisdom Deepak offers in this book. Whether youre a single woman or not, youll find this book is for youbecause its all about being grounded in Christ.”